BANJARA APP

Matrimony Safety Guide

Last Updated: June 2026

BANJARA APP Matrimony exists to help members of the Banjara community find life partners through respectful, family-aware introductions. Most users you meet here are sincere — but as with any platform, a small number try to misuse it. This guide tells you what to watch for, how to protect yourself, and how to report problems.

The safest matches come from honesty, patience, and family involvement. Take your time, verify details, and never feel pressured to share money, photos, or personal documents.

1. Core Safety Rules

Always

  • Keep all early conversation inside the App
  • Verify identity through a video call before meeting
  • Involve at least one family member or friend in major decisions
  • Trust your instincts — if it feels wrong, it usually is

Never

  • Send money, gifts, or financial documents
  • Share OTPs, passwords, or banking details
  • Meet alone in private at first meeting
  • Give in to pressure or urgency

2. Building a Safer Profile

3. Conversations: Pace & Boundaries

4. Money & Dowry — Never Negotiable

Dowry is illegal in India. Demanding or giving dowry — money, gold, gifts, property — at any stage of matrimony conversation is a crime under the Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961. BANJARA APP permanently bans accounts that ask for or imply dowry.

5. Warning Signs (Red Flags)

Be careful if someone…

  • Rushes to move the conversation off BANJARA APP within hours of matching
  • Refuses to do a video call but pushes for marriage talks
  • Has very few photos, no family photos, or photos that look like stock images
  • Avoids basic personal questions or gives inconsistent answers
  • Tells dramatic stories that always end with needing your help
  • Mentions money, gold, property, or "gifts" early in conversation
  • Is "currently abroad and unable to meet" but will return after some help
  • Tries to isolate you from your family or friends
  • Becomes angry or guilt-trips you when you ask normal questions
  • Pushes to meet in private or in unusual locations

6. Verifying Someone's Profile

Before you take the relationship offline, work through this checklist:

Verification Checklist

  • Have we done at least one video call where I could see their face clearly?
  • Do their stated profession, city, and family match across multiple conversations?
  • Have I (or my family) spoken with at least one of their family members?
  • Have they shared their full name spelled the same way as on government ID — and I've seen it?
  • Have I searched their name plus city to see if their public profile matches what they've told me?
  • Has anyone asked for money, gold, or "gifts"? If yes — stop here.

7. Meeting in Person — Safely

  1. First meeting in a public place. A coffee shop, restaurant, or community gathering — never their home, your home, or a private vehicle.
  2. Bring a family member or friend. Or have one waiting nearby. In our community, family-accompanied first meetings are normal — embrace them.
  3. Share your live location. Send your real-time location to someone you trust for the full duration of the meeting.
  4. Set a check-in time. Tell someone "If you don't hear from me by 8 PM, call me."
  5. Use your own transport. Don't get into a car with someone you've just met.
  6. Trust your instincts. If anything feels wrong during the meeting — leave immediately. You can be polite, but leave.

8. Family Involvement

In our tradition, families are part of every match. BANJARA APP supports this:

9. Photos, Screenshots & Private Data

Once a photo or screenshot leaves your device, you cannot control where it goes. Treat every digital share with that in mind.

10. Anyone Under 18

Matrimony services are restricted to users 18 years and above. If you suspect a profile belongs to someone under 18:

11. Reporting & Blocking

Every profile, every conversation, and every reel has a Report option. Use it whenever you see:

Blocking instantly stops contact, removes you from their visibility, and prevents new messages. We don't notify the other person that you blocked them.

12. If You Feel Unsafe

If you are in immediate danger, call local emergency services first (India: 112). Then report to us.

Helpful numbers in India:

13. Contact BANJARA APP

Matrimony Safety Team

Email: [email protected]
Subject line: "Safety concern — <username>"
Reports through the App are reviewed within 24 hours; serious safety reports are prioritised within 2 hours during working hours.